• Do you hate conflict?  
• Do you avoid unpleasantness at all costs, even when doing so can make the problem worse?
• Have you gotten into the same fruitless, frustrating conversation with the people you love most and ended up with lead in your stomach?
• Do you have plenty of conflict, but find that it’s sloppy and unproductive?
• Are you constantly frustrated by the very people you love the most?

Frustration ages you prematurely.  Did you know that? 

Whatever you practice, you get good at. So if you are practicing carping, nagging, complaining, and diminishing those you love, it is having an impact on your physical health and the health of your relationships.

 Are you the one being carped at?  

 Wouldn’t you love to be able to instantly shift what is happening to you in a fun funny, and surprising way? To be able to say goodbye to those long back-room talks about how their behavior “makes you feel?” This call will give you some simple techniques to help shift things quickly and with a smile.  Really.

If you don’t think your ability to transform conflict in your relationship quickly and effectively is impacting your business, you are just plain wrong.  Energy wasted on unproductive conflict is energy you do not have to put where you need it: On your business, your dream or both. 

I grew up in a home with verbal, physical violence and shaming.

In my first  marriage, (notice the word “first)” we lived for years without a fight-one single fight! And I was proud of it. I thought our ability to avoid conflict was a sign of health. Instead, our inability to face our difficulties head-on allowed them to breed in the darkness. Guess where it led us? You got it, divorce.

If we had been able to have conflict that provided solutions and deepened our relationship, the word “first” might not be there.

I promise you that you will take away some nuggets of playful transformation you can use with your partner/spouse, parents, children, coworkers, and employees.

 It doesn’t have to be so damn hard or so damn serious. 

My goal for the call is for you to walk way with the understanding that conflict can be fun - not all the time, but enough of the time to build some ballast to get you through the tougher struggles. 

Is this call for people in crisis?  No, of course not.  If you are in crisis, you should schedule a free fifteen-minute consult with me.  Perhaps your bliss is stalking you and you do not want to let yourself know what you already know, and so you feel “stuck.”  Call me and we can see if working with me could shift this. Email me at Vicki@OutrageousVisions.com for a free consult.